Author Archives: Yarmi

It’s all in the details

We’re so far down the line that we can hope for and realistically expect that Moshiach is truly imminent. We can feel it, although we can’t. We’re numbed by distance in time from Sinai. Although we have sufficient knowledge and … Continue reading

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Psychological and Emotional Aspects of Divorce

I found this to be very valuable for those considering divorce, and those who have been through it. It’s published by Kathleen O’Connell Corcoran in 1997 at .. I have reposted here in case it goes offline for some … Continue reading

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How men think

An unclaimed edited letter from a man, for women, about how men think (or as the original says: we always hear the rules from the woman, these are ours). 1. Men are not mind readers. 2. Learn to work the … Continue reading

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Modesty – particular or not?

These are some basic young Jewish bochur’s (boy/man) advice to girls who wish to be attractive looking. The Yeshiva bochur writes a frank and open letter, stating the one thing guys want in a wife. It seems there is widespread … Continue reading

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Love letters – How to introduce yourself on a dating site

I thought I’d share these letters that a paid for dating site sends me. I really do love them all, they press good buttons and if there was an iota of truth in any of them they would probably have … Continue reading

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Emotions – types of love

It’s not quite an academic conquest, although the topic of love and emotions is concurrent with the theme of my life and blog at the moment. In a quest to find a partner, it’s noted that more than 50% of … Continue reading

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