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Psychological and Emotional Aspects of Divorce

I found this to be very valuable for those considering divorce, and those who have been through it. It’s published by Kathleen O’Connell Corcoran in 1997 at http://www.mediate.com/mobile/article.cfm?id=229 .. I have reposted here in case it goes offline for some … Continue reading

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Forbidden relationships – stay away

The position of Jewish law – and a law of the State of Israel – adultery under duress is not considered adultery. In considering adultery resulting from a mistake two scenarios are considered; a real mistake – is defined as … Continue reading

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Divorce and the Character Disordered

Stumbling accross this article I realised it was worth sharing. Dr. George Simon explains to the Huffington Post that some divorces may be exceptionally toxic because one party suffers from what he terms a “character disorder” (CD). Divorcing a disordered … Continue reading

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Hey Rabbi’s – be there before it gets to the Beth Din

I am writing to appeal to you to please speak to your Rabbis about the issue of adultery. Since adultery is legal in many countries – as opposed to murder – our entire society tends to sweep it under the … Continue reading

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Divorcees and Widows – share the same pain

I’m a divorced man and I’ve been engaged to a widow (of 6 years), so when I read David Wolpe publish his ex-wifes notes on divorce, I felt a desperate need to share it. Most touching indeed and in case … Continue reading

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Dealing with a spouses ex

Spotted a funny page called “The underground guide to Shidduch dating“, but the main gist of this post is for – B”esras Hashem – my future wife. Ann Mazzaferro writes about how to deal with ones husbands (vindictive) ex. I … Continue reading

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